Tuesday, 22 July 2014

I'm Here For You - A Little Reminder

Okay, I don't usually do these sorts of posts but I just got thinking about how happy I've become in the last year or so. Long story short; I left people behind who didn't deserve the title of 'friend' and I got a lovely job that has sky-rocketed my confidence. It's still not 100% but if you'd seen me when I first started, you'd know just from one look that I had hit rock bottom.

In other words, I understand how crap life can be. I've had a lot of things happen to me in the past that have completely wrecked my self confidence, my esteem and shattered my heart.
I am in NO WAY saying I have it the worst because I know for a fact that there are many others who have it a helluva lot worse than I did. That fact alone made me want to make this post, so I can tell every single one of you, whether you're young or old, boy or girl, that doesn't matter to me. Everyone needs someone to talk to at one time or another and, it may sound strange, but sometimes venting to someone you barely know can lift a massive weight off your shoulders.

See, you can tell someone you're close to. Absolutely, those people care about you to no end. You can talk to your best friend or your parents about something, but sometimes you know they're just trying to make you feel better by lying to you. They think they're doing whats best for you but you don't feel any better. I know from experience that sometimes you can feel so unbelievably rubbish and tired and you just want someone to talk to - someone who doesn't know you, someone who has no reason to be biased because they don't know about you, someone who you can rant to and it will 100% stay between you and this stranger.

I try to talk to a lot of you guys in the book blogging/bookworm community but it's impossible to meet you all and get to know every single one of you.

So... I just wanted to say that if any of you, whether we've spoken before or not, can speak to me about anything and everything. If you want to fangirl about books and fictional characters with me or you're having trouble with people at school or your parents are fighting and you're confused, you can always send me a message. Shoot me an email or even a DM over Twitter, it doesn't matter. I'll get back to you in no time at all and every single word that you send me is confidential, just between me and you. I enjoy helping people, I want everyone to have happiness and if I can help you even a tiny, little, minute bit then I'll be thrilled!

In conclusion; you don't have to go through anything alone. I'm sure many people agree with me on this one, this community right here is so kind and the people in it are as lovely as can be... None of them are going to turn you away if you tell them you have something on your mind. And I sure as hell wont!

I love all of you guys, everyone who has followed my blog, recommended books to me on Goodreads, fangirled with me over swoon-worthy fictional guys - all of you have been so kind to me. I want to return the favor.

My email address is enchantedrosebooks@hotmail.com
My Twitter is @CosyUpWithBooks

I hope this post helps someone.

Stay lovely, Amber x


  1. Aww, Amber you are simply too sweet. I'll surely remember and give you a buzz if I need someone to vent my anger on.
    I don't know what you've gone through but girlie, I can assure you I'll be there for you too if you need someone to talk to.
    Take care.


    1. Absolutely! Feel free to message me whenever, it doesn't have to be when you're feeling down. As I said, I'd love to talk to every single one of you about books, movies and the like.

      Thank you so much, sweetheart. I wish I'd found this community sooner, you've all been so lovely. x

  2. Thanks Amber, you're so lovely. I'm really glad I started book blogging because I got to meet you! Even though I'm such a newbie at blogging, you didn't hesitate to give me a shout out and follow me. So THANK YOU!!!!! I hope I get to meet other people that are as generous and lovely as you!

    1. You were nothing but kind and gracious to me, so thank YOU! You wont be a newbie for long - your reviews are fantastic (as I've told you before) and you're sure to be noticed for that soon enough.

      Never hesitate to ask me for a favor or ask for advice:)

    2. Thank you!! I really appreciate your kind words!